I feel bitter because I haven't had a gf and i'm already 22 years old..i feel i ped up all my chances?

I say get out and make something happen. You're only 22. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and go get what you want. If that girl still wants to go out with you, take her up on it. If you get a girl's number, call her and see if she wants to do something. Don't expect that she's going to want to sit there with the phone to her ear listening about your humdrum life. Personally, I hate talking on the phone. If you want to be happy, go look for happiness. You may not find it, but you might have fun trying. And stop being such a downer. You won't attract anybody if your energy is always gray.