What to say when......?

my sis has the same problem. She started out with a bf and broke up with him becuz there were other guys going after her and he called it off becuz he understood. Now my sis likes this other guy who ADORES her. When he told her he loves her, she told him to give her sometime to think about it so it won’t happen like last time. If you like this guy, but you feel that ur not ready, tell him you need time to clear urself up. He will understand, if not tell him if he doesn’t respect ur decision, then it’s not going 2 work out. Girl tell him. Tell him that what you feel about him and why you need time, if you want it. He’ll understand and things will work out. Don’t hold back because if you do, he’s going too devastated. He’s going to start thinking that you might not want him or something else. So tae your decision as soon as you can or something might happen that will deny ur feelings for one another. Don’t hold back your answer for him and go for it!